Profile lilahtov: Looking For My Beshert

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Would Describe Myself As Put me in a room with ten strangers and I’ll have ten new buddies, or at least ten slightly amused new acquaintances. The desire to be kind to others is a basic part of my being. This stems from my faith, which informs every aspect of my life. I’d like to find someone to share that life with, whether we’re taking a trip to Egypt or simply sitting at home watching Pillow Talk or Back to the Future. I love to read, everything from Animal Farm to This Is My G-d. I think I prefer campy fun to camping and the hotel pool to the beach, but I do enjoy doing outdoorsy things, especially cycling. And as to the aforementioned hotel, I am a very down to earth woman, so it does not have to be the Ritz. If I am with the right person, one of Tom Bodett’s fine establishments will do just fine. I’ll go to a football or baseball game with you in a heartbeat, although it’s probably just an excuse for me to have a ballpark dog, kosher of course, and lemonade. I’m an all around funny and outgoing girl and I play nice, so say hello and let’s make a play date.

The man that I am looking for is intelligent with a great sense of humor and a passion for social justice. He is not into playing games or the thrill of the chase, he is not looking for just another girlfriend, but he is ready for a serious, committed long-term relationship leading to marriage and hopefully a family. He does not have to tell people that he is a gentleman; his actions prove that he is one. He is a man of action; he knows exactly what he wants and goes after it. If we are a match, you will be my number one priority and I will be number one on your list. Being selfish is just not part of who he is; he cares for his family, community, friends and his partner. He’s attractive in his own way and is comfortable with his emotions. He does not have any children, either living with him or outside the home. He can hold his own in a debate with me and can tactfully tell me when I am wrong. He will come over and sit on the sofa with me while we watch The Empire Strikes Back and he explains to me exactly why it is obviously the best of the Star Wars movies. And he’s the man that I can’t get angry at, even when we both know we are lost and he continues to pass gas stations without stopping to ask for directions.

But, even with this long list of all the things I would like this man to be, if he is truly my bashert then none of it will matter. The fact that we have found each other will be all that matters.
Sign Aquarius

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Big And Beautiful
My Height Is 5' 5 (1.65 m)
My Eyes Are Brown
My Ethnicity Is African American
My Marital Situation Is Never Married
I Have Kids No
I Want Kids Not Sure
My Best Feature Is Eyes
Body Art Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is Black
Willing To Relocate Yes

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is Full-time
My Speciality Is Other
My Job Title Is Community Service Coordinator
I Live Alone
At Home All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - One Or Two

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Nerd
My Social Behavior Is Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Movies, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Cool, Goofy

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Jewish
I Attend Services Once A Month
My Political Views Are Liberal
My Kind Of Humor Is Campy, Clever, Friendly, Goofy

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Country, Pop, Jazz, Ambient, Soul, Reggae
When I Read, I Always Read Auto-biography, Business, Classic, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Mystery, Philosophy, Political, Religious, Satire
My Idea Of Fun Is Traveling, having new experiences, going to a modern art museum, learning something new, trying a new restaurant.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Good Looks, Sensitivity, Boldness, Power, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Committed